Ex Girlfriend Guru Blog

So, you want to know how to win your girlfriend back after a breakup? Well, I’m about to reveal a few “secrets” that I think you should know about.

First of all, you need to stop begging to get her back, if that’s what you’re doing. You don’t want to try and “buy” her love back with flowers or any other sort of gift. Trying to buy a woman’s love will only demonstrate you are needy and insecure. That will kill any attraction she has for you.

Secondly, don’t try to reason or argue with her about the relationship. In fact, you don’t want to bring up the relationship at all. Don’t mention it at all. You want to play it cool and act like you are ready to move on with your life; like you are completely fine with the breakup.

Never try to use persuasion to win your girl back. Women don’t respond to that. They respond to the way you make her feel. Remember what you were like when you first met? Remember how confident you were – how much of a man you were? I bet all of that slowly changed over the span of your relationship. Slowly she began to take control of the relationship. She was the one making all the decisions and hold all the cards.

You need to understand that the reason she broke up with you is because she lost attraction for you. Women are attracted to very different things than what men are.

Men are genetically programmed to be drawn toward a specific hip to waste ratio, facial symmetry, etc. Women, on the other hand, are attracted to the way a man behaves. Looks have very little to do with the equation. It all comes down to how much of a leader, assertive and dominant you are. That is what created attraction in a woman’s mind.

In conclusion, you need to stop being her little puppy dog. Women don’t want that in a man and it will only kill your chances at getting her back. It’s the reason she lost attraction for you in the first place. It’s time to make a change in your behavior. It’s time to go back to being the same guy you used to be when you first started dating your girlfriend.

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